Siblings

People wonder if Liam gets lost in the chaos. Raising a child with a disability certainly requires extra effort, extra energy, extra attention. Since I’ve had Aidan, I’ve been especially mindful of Liam.

He’s a quiet, precocious young man now; a teenager who demands little of me. And yet, I savor the moments we sit together to read, or eat ice cream for lunch, or share witty quips throughout the day. Liam is so completely mine.

I’m mostly forbidden to speak to, acknowledge, or heaven forbid touch him in public. Moments like these….

are quite simply a treasure. Liam has not been lost in the chaos; he is a steady light that beckons us into the extraordinary…of the ordinary.

Shared with Ellen Stumbo Writes

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About Heather Bowie

I’m the mother of two wonderful boys and have been married almost 15 years to an amazing Irishman I met in a castle. Our oldest son Liam loves to read and play baseball and has recently excelled in making me lattes! Our younger son Aidan loves to giggle and socialize. Aidan has a significant developmental disability. This blog was birthed out of the desire to tell our story, and in doing so, appreciate the journey.
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